For some reason it all fell into place. Maybe finally having a plan and acknowledging that I had a plan helped? Why Saturday the weather chose to take a break from the unrelenting heat and humidity is beyond me. Upper 90’s dropping to barely 70’s meant we could cross something off the list for several of us.
We threw some clothes in a bag and drove to Maine. It’s not that far, maybe 3 hours to get to our destination. Everyone in the car is very Catholic, so I had to stifle a laugh once or twice when they thought a Divine Hand had some part. I love and respect these people, so I’m not about to argue!
We made a pit stop to visit my daughter. I still believe that she is always with me and this marker is just a way for others to know about her. Guess my faith is just different for the others in my crew? Finding purple-ish roses in the middle of nowhere Maine is surprisingly easier than you would think. Having said what I needed to we headed of for the water. The walk was a little further than I recall, but I wasn’t needing something to steady myself beyond a helpful hand the last time either.
My comments above about religion make the next part that much more confusing for me. That sense of calm that came over me was something I haven’t experienced in many years. There is a picture next to “Type A personality” that is unmistakably me. Having lost some of that trying to be something I wasn’t used to anger me. My ex needed me to be a kinder version, but everyone else needed me to be the rougher person. I needed to be that rougher person in order to do my job. Part of what created that downfall was my not being me anymore. Odd since the guy she met was the kind you wanted making nasty decisions because I didn’t feel bad about them. [it necessary when you own a business to at times not be nice. That doesn’t mean disrespectful of others, just tough!]
Think Jerry Stiller yelling “Serenity Now!” while inwardly feeling a great sense of peace!
At dinner I told everyone what I was thinking. How for a flash I was calm. Not worried about the past or the future. Trapped in moment that didn’t make an ounce of sense to me.
All along I have known that these folks were going to push me to do what was necessary to bring me back. It’s been years of knowing that I felt guilt about some of my choices and that there were times when the running was my way of trying to inflict pain on myself I didn’t feel otherwise.
You can’t outrun ghosts! They always win, every time.
Friends of friends own a cabin that is rustic in every way. One room with beds in the opposing corners. As the lights went out, we had that Walton’s moment with everyone saying goodnight. [then the snoring began!]
There are plenty of things I wish I knew how to explain. Right now I’m starting a different journey from everyone else. At times there are going to be some companions and at times I need to be completely alone. Figuring out which is which is the hard part.
I’ve planned a few surprises for the next couple of weeks. We’ll see how they work and whether they get shared as well.
Aside from that one last thing I know I’m going to do, there is something I know I need to do. And it is as much for myself as it is for another.
I hope to not screw that up!